Robin Newman

Online dating



Posted: Friday, March 06, 2009

by Robin Newman
Robin J

I met my partner online we have been together six years married for three of those years so I kind of have a little insight around cyber relationships. I am a Psychic so that gives me a little bit of an edge you would think. But you know what even though I believe I met my soul mate even though we talked honestly and openly about everything it still wasn't all peaches and cream.

Some things you cannot know about someone by chatting are:

1. how they interact in social settings. Being alone in a room with a computer is vastly different to being in a crowded pub.

2. Their reactions to certain situations. Watching your dog on web cam is not the same as having to pick up it's poop everyday.

3. How they interact with your family and friends or children. Maybe you might forget to tell him/her Aunty likes refill her brandy often and it is a family rule no one notices.

4. Quirks-like it or not we all have quirks or traits we are not aware of. Wet towels left on the floor or toothpaste tubes squeezed in the middle.

It is very easy to be brave in the cyber world to leave your anxieties, fears and phobias behind and step into a different persona. Words come quicker when they are typed rather than spoken. Intimacy is not as intimidating when you are 1000 miles away and can say you hear the doorbell ring even when it hasn't.

But when you eventually meet face to face there is not going to be anywhere to hide the real you.

I was lucky I met some one with the same commitment, the same desire to work hard at making the relationship work and the same belief systems. Being Psychic didn't give either one of us an edge it simply meant we got to see the real us sooner rather than later down the road. We still have to work everyday on our 'stuff' that is an endless journey. Being soul mates does not guarantee a relationship, the foundation you build your relationship on does.

So next time you plug in and turn on the web cam be aware what you see on the other end may not be what you will get when it arrives on your doorstep. The wrapping may be fancy but when you get to look inside the parcel may be empty.

Travel safely along the Cyber Highway and always remember if you have embellished the truth a little chances are so have they.

When one woman looks into the eyes of another she will always see herself reflected. As women we have a common bond which goes beyond colour religion or sexuality.

When we stand beside each other support and encourage each other we become women empowered. Robin J is an Australia Psychic living in Canada who designs workshops, tips and tools designed to help woman step into the Goddess they were born to be.


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» left by Nenita Wells
from Providence, RI 2 years 350 days ago.
Hi Robin.
 
Thank you for a very insightful article. I enjoyed reading it and will learn from it. Thanks for the friendly warning:"Travel safely along the Cyber Highway..."
 
Best regards,
 
Nenita
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